Hello Middle Aged Woman.

 hey.....I'm not a spring chicken - I am an aged steak......
and guess what....that is okay!

I am not the skinniest person you've ever met, nor am I the fattest.  I am not the smartest person in the world - but I sure ain't the dimmest either.  I am not wealthy; I am in fact often broke but what I have is mine and I earned it, it wasn't given to me and I am grateful for my job.  I am not the prettiest; never thought I was but I don't have a wart on my nose.  I am clean, loving towards those I have affection for, open-minded, lazy, not fake, cynical, critical, impatient, empathetic, part time vegetarian who loves to cook, not to clean, doing laundry-but not putting it away.  I don't sort socks, I scrub my shower while taking a shower.  I am funny, with a bit of a dirty mind.  I cry when I watch homecomings or babies hearing or seeing for the first time.  When I am angry, I can either be really quiet, or really really mean - but I always feel guilty.  I am not aggressive unless I am pushed beyond my limit, and I have a really high limit.  I am forgiving, and often kind.  I am not the most girly girl you'll ever meet.  I feel like I am aging okay, but I see the lines on my face.  I see the silver strands on my head.  I feel the pain in my joints when I get up from the sofa, or sit on the potty.  I am not wise, I am still learning. I am often tired, but wake up in a good mood every morning.  Sometimes I am even friendly before I've had my coffee.

I love photography, and my family.  I am introverted and have decided, since I've been in my forties that it is OKAY to be introverted.  It is okay to stay home when you're all peopled out.  I used to love selfies-but I hate them.  I don't know if it's an age thing or because I clearly see all my flaws.

My intuition is spot on.  Which is why I only tolerate certain people, not really letting them in.  I am private until you get to know me, then I am an open book.

Hi, I am a middle aged woman.