I get that question all the time: "don't you just think about it (her) every time...."
Or the comment: "yeah it's like a constant reminder" or "you have a constant reminder"
The truth is, I don't need a constant reminder. I am well aware of the situation. I am well aware of my past & his.
The truth is also, I don't. I don't think of it (her) when I look at Miss O. I don't look at her and think of pain, regret or disappointment. I just see love & joy and that's all I think about. Oh that and buying her clothes & shows.....<3 lol
Love this...and remember, you don't have to ANSWER to anyone or justify ANYTHING and shame on those who would even say such a thing to you.
ReplyDeleteYou're right. At first I thought it was just people being concerned....but then I realized over the years that it's just their own projection of how they think they would feel....but honestly, no one can know until they live it. I certainly never imagined my life to be what it is today-but honestly, I wouldn't change it......I love my family! All of it.
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