Showing posts with label sisters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sisters. Show all posts

Friday, December 03, 2021

Saved my Sister (and myself)

When I was about 7 or 8 years old and my sister Molly was 4 or 5 we lived in a small town in Florida called Newberry.  We lived in a small neighborhood with block homes, and our particular area had two streets that ran alongside each other, both streets had deadends, and our house was in the middle of our street, but on the furthers of the two streets around a curve.

My mom worked in Gainesville at the time and my dad worked in town, you could walk or ride your bike to his shop-though he drove a van to work daily.  Our babysitter, lived at the end of her street which was the other street before ours that ran parallel to ours.  Most of the days, we would be excited to go home or perhaps our parents didn't want to go to the babysitter's house-so we would walk down the street that the babysitter lived on, around the corner, and down our street to our house.  As neighborhoods go, the houses were close together and you could actually look to the left as you were walking home and see the back yards of the people that lived in our street & you could actually see our house too.

Even as a child, I tried to respect other people's property and didn't just go walking through their yards to get to our house-I walked the road and tried not to get in any trouble or be in the way.

One particular day, a guy in a truck drove past us and down to the end of the street and went around the cul-de-sac (right in front of the sitter's house) and back down the road to get out of the neighborhood.  At the time he came back, we were about 1/2 way down the street.  If you were to look left, you could literally see our house.  He stopped and opened his door as we walked up.  He said to me and my sister that my dad had asked him to pick us up and bring us home.  I just looked at him, because I was confused to why my dad would send someone to pick us up that we 1. didn't know and 2. we literally could see our house-we were not that far away, just around the corner.  So he repeated himself, but in a more angry voice.

At this point, my sister Molly starts climbing up on the guy, holding on to his open door to get in.  I pull her back down and say in her ear "you can't go with him, he could be a kidnapper..."

At the same time, this is happening, the babysitter's teen daughter is running down the street screaming because she had noticed him drive down and around the curve in front of her house and was watching to see if he was living in the area.  Molly yells...no...and starts to slam the door as he speeds off....never to be seen again!

And that is why I am the best sister in the entire world!

xoxo, Lela


photo for reference (and yes this is the exact area-but many many years later)



Friday, June 01, 2018

Travels | Cedar Key FL

Well, every once in a while I get a wild hair up my ass and decide I am sick of sitting around being introverted.  I make a plan, I get up and I go out and have a great time.  This particular time, I called up my sister and asked her to spend the day with me.  We drove out to Cedar Key.  We strolled around the town.  We went into a museum and a few shops.  We had an amazing lunch.  We had some drinks & listened to live music.  It was, a gorgeous-beautiful day!









If you've been thinking about getting out of your own house and exploring - give me a call, maybe we can do it together :)

xoxo, Lela

Friday, August 11, 2017

Sissy

The other day, when I was at my dads house - we were having a typical visit-nothing major, just talking to each other about normal things.  I had brought Olivia with me, because Savannah was visiting and I thought the girls would enjoy spending a little time together.  Before we arrived, Olivia and I had stopped by the lake to take her four year old photos & when we arrived, the girls saw each other & Savannah asked if Olivia could swim.  We changed the girls into bathing suits and let them have at it, and while they were swimming - my dad, myself & my step mom were doing what I started the blog post saying - talking about nothing.

Olivia is getting onto Savannah while we are conversing, saying "stop that Savannah" and "you're getting the pool all dirty" "stop spraying me with the hose".....and my dad blurts out "Olivia is kind of a sissy isn't she?".  At that moment, I went from being average in my feelings about being there talking to him to just pissed off.  It never fails that every, single, time I visit this man, he has to some how put down or talk down to or about my children.  I don't understand it, I really don't.  Perhaps he feels my sister's children are some how superior to mine because they don't mind getting dirty or having water sprayed into their eyes, I have no idea.  But seriously, my daughter is a sissy because she didn't want someone to throw dirt in her face, spray the water hose into her eyes or swim in a muddy pool?

Olivia is the youngest, and so I have heard this shit from him since 1990.  And by writing this blog post I am not saying that any of my siblings children are superior or inferior to my own.  I am only stating my feelings as I have listened to this as I said before, a long ass time.  And I won't repeat on my blog at this moment, the stupid inaccurate remarks he used to say was "wrong" with my first two born children.

I would also like to state, for the record - I do not think if you like to be clean this doesn't make you a sissy!

Oh and then there is this:

sis·sy
ˈsisē/
informal
noun
  1. 1.
    a person regarded as effeminate or cowardly.
    synonyms:cowardweaklingmilksopnamby-pambybabywimpMore
adjective
  1. 1.
    feeble and cowardly.
    synonyms:effeminateeffeteunmanly
    "sissy manners"

Thursday, November 10, 2016

Oh, happy day!

Today, I have been in an incredibly good mood.  I can't even explain why because literally nothing is really going smooth out there in the world right now.  Maybe it's because it's a Thursday & I have off on Friday (Saturday, Sunday & Monday), maybe it's because I am going to my sisters house tonight for dinner, maybe it's because all the kids are home, happy & healthy this week.  I just don't know.  I wish I could contribute it to a single thing, but do you really have to have a good reason to be in a good mood?

This weekend, we will have a busy one.  Friday (tomorrow), it's Veteran's day & we are having a cook out at my home with the family, Saturday the boys have a double header out of town in the morning/early afternoon & later in the evening I am going to visit and hang out with a friend of mine, Sunday I have a photo session & WTD that evening.  Monday!  NOTHING!

I have finished Christmas shopping for TWO people on my long list of people.  Good gifts too, which makes me happy. I am not schooled in the art of gift giving.  I was not blessed with that sadly.  And I never just trust in myself when I find something, I fret about it way to much!

Happy Weekending My Sweets!!!

xoxo, Lela

Wednesday, July 27, 2016

St. Augustine Girls Weekend

This is one of my favorite places to go.  These pictures where taken when my very good friend, aka my bestie and I took a trip to St. Augustine.  I think it's time for another get away!!!!


















































































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